“We’re
all seeking that special person who is right for us. But if
you’ve been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect
there’s no right person, just different flavors of wrong.
Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek
out partners who are wrong in some complementary way. But it
takes a lot of living to grow fully into your own wrongness.
And it isn’t until you finally run up against your deepest
demons, your unsolvable problems—the ones that make you truly
who you are—that we’re ready to find a lifelong mate. Only
then do you finally know what you’re looking for. You’re
looking for the wrong person. But not just any wrong person: the
right wrong person—someone you lovingly gaze upon and think,
'This is the problem I want to have.'.
'This is the problem I want to have.'.
I
will find that special person who is wrong for me in just the right
way.
Let our scars fall in love.”
Let our scars fall in love.”
Galway
Kinnell
What
I always say... gotta find the one you want
to be unhappy with, being happy is a piece of cake.